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Posted by on Jan 1, 2012 in Inspirational, Leadership | 12 comments

We Don’t Need to Change the World

Leo Tolstoy stopped me in my tracks last week with a powerful reminder about change.

He spoke to me,

Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.

The nobility imbued into changing the world cannot be something done outside ourselves. No. Changing the world is noble because it begins with each of us drawing a line in the sand. That line represents our choice to act to make things better for others. On one side is a way that no longer works. The opposite side is a way that redefines.

Tolstoy’s wisdom pulls it back to us. To redefine he accurately noted that we can change the world by shifting how we, individually and collectively, look within to assess what we’re doing that’s not working for the greater good. You define the greater good based on your circumstances. Perhaps it’s your team. Or your family.

Changing the world is an outcome of changing how we each respond to and connect with people. It’s an outcome based on our choice of the other side that redefines.

We change the world by softening our hearts to see how we can become more compassionate. Or more humble. Or more understanding of others. We change the world by a changed heart and actions that help, that make a difference.

We don’t need to change the world. The world is what we’ve created through our choices. What we change is our hearts, our minds, our actions for the sole purpose of improving the spaces in which we live.

 

This post originally appeared on Shawn’s previous blog.

Photo used courtesy of NASA Goddard  Photo and Video

Shawn Murphy (104 Posts)

Change Leader | Speaker | Writer Owner and principal consultant at Achieved Strategies. Co-founder of Switch and Shift. Passionately explores the space where business & humanity intersect. Promoter of workplace optimism. Believes work can be a source of joy. Top ranked on Huffington Post and HR Examiner.


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  • BruceSallan

    WE change the world ONE person at a time. For those of us who are fortunate – able to feed ourselves and families, have money, a decent home – meaning most of us in the U.S., we should count our blessing and REACH OUT and help someone in need. I mean directly. Mentor a kid. Go to an old folks home and sit with a lonely widow or widower. These are the things that make the world a better place and make YOU feel better too! It’s a win-win!

    • shawmu

      @BruceSallanbrucesallan Bruce, well said. Thinking less about our needs is scary at first, but once we mentor, or volunteer it becomes contagious. It’s wonderful to be reminded that the world isn’t about us. Happy new year my friend.

      • BruceSallan

        @shawmu Believe me, Shawn, I’m reminding myself this ALL the time!

        • shawmu

          @BruceSallan You, then, are doing great things. You show it even on line. You show support and encouragement consistently. You share relevant and useful information. You’re a good guy.

  • http://www.thecaremovement.com/ Al Smith

    Love this Shawn. i like to say; Change may start with the letter C, but real change begins with me.

    Love this new site with Ted. You guys are awesome. Hope to connect further soon.

    Thanks again and take CARE.

    Al

    • http://www.switchandshift.com Shawn Murphy

      Al,
      We look forward to connecting more in 2012. We appreciate you and your support.
      Shawn

  • http://www.alankay.ca/ alankay1

    And, I often quote, ‘To change other’s behaviour we must first change our own’. I think Covey said that one. Agree that we don’t need to change world. We get into that mindset becasue we worry that it’s not working. In fact, much of the world is working really well – much more than is a problem. Now, if we could just get the media barrons to provide evening news that features bad news within the context that much of what looks disastrous is in fact, the uglier part of us making progress. If everything was as bad as we have believed for so long, humans would have by now obliterated themselves. This does not imply complacency, that everything is perfect. It’s our restlessness to make things even better that compels to re-create. That’s what makes us a sustainable species.

    • http://www.switchandshift.com Shawn Murphy

      Alan,
      We live in a sound-bite world that leans more towards the dramatic underpinnings of life. Even Katie Couric couldn’t get Americans to enjoy watching news that’s positive. Despite these realities, you, Ted, me and other like-minded people must keep consistent with thoughtfully showing progress, realistically and optimistically.

      Thank you, Alan, for connecting with us here. Happy New Year!
      Shawn

    • http://www.shiftandswitch.com Ted Coine

      Alan, I love this. With your permission, I’m going to quote you at some point in my column at the Sustainable Business Forum.

      “It’s our restlessness to make things even better that compels to re-create. That’s what makes us a sustainable species.”

      Thanks!

  • http://www.shiftandswitch.com Ted Coine

    Shawn, I loved this post the first time I read it, on your previous blog, and I’m really glad I took the time to read it again this morning. I went through exactly the type of transformation you describe. Several years ago I was building a business and by many standards successful, and it wasn’t like I was a tyrant or anything, but I wasn’t as happy inside as I knew I should have been. So I stepped back. I really took an assessment of who I was, where I was, where I was headed, and – most importantly – who/what/and where I wanted to be. And I started fixing myself.

    I’m still fixing, but I’m happy inside because I know I’m on the right track now. I’m more other-focused, less concerned with what I personally want and need for my own ego. As I said, I was never a jerk (in my estimation, at least). But I was trying to change the world, and what I’ve learned is what you reinforce in this post: it is most important that I fix myself first, give of myself to others for their benefit, and let the benefits to me happen or not as they will.

    Bottom line? I’m happier now, and more useful to others. As Bruce points out, it’s a win all around.

  • http://marcscottonline.com Marc Scott

    A beautiful reminder that we all need to hear! Thank you for sharing.

    • http://www.switchandshift.com Shawn Murphy

      Marc, thank you for stopping to read and comment. Be well.